Who are the biggest influences in your life?
Everyone has an influence on everyone. The one who has the biggest influence on your life probably will be the one who helps you right when you need it, one who offers friendship along with the ones who go about helping and integrating humanity as opposed to those who separate and control.
What we consider as a bad influence could be, as an example, one who makes us angry, or we feel rejection, or recurring patterns that won’t let us sleep. They’re all influences from someone.
What we have to realise is that rejecting or trying to hide from any type of negativity, that negativity will always haunt us. The way out is to notice that every thing that bothers us has goodness at its core.
The same goodness that is at our core.
Changing our feelings from being a victim to feelings of acceptance (that doesn’t mean you agree) will change our life.
All influence is good depending on whether we react or just notice. The happenings outside will never change. Responsibility lies within. Are you up to it?
Alan.
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